Are you trying to be successful at something, or with several areas in your life? This is a characteristic normal for us human creatures, to feel good about our abilities and accomplishments. We seem to be continuously striving for something more to feel good about. We so often think that we are not doing or being what we want.
When actually, it’s not a matter of finding out ‘how’ to have success in your life, but rather how and where to
direct your success. The problem is not, not being a success. The thing is you actually already are very successful every day, but maybe not at what you would like.
You are successfully living your life, your body is functioning and you are thinking about something every day, all day. Now if you weren’t having any thoughts at all, I would be concerned. And since you are thinking about something, you are receiving the fulfillment of those thought requests without fail.
The universe doesn’t fail itself, and since you are a part of it you will not be failed either. Just as a plant seed always gets what it requests, so do you. So then why don’t you get everything you think you want? You want it so you must be requesting it right.
Well, again you actually are getting everything that you are requesting. I know it seems like I’m taking you in a circle here but think about this for a moment, how do you know what a tulip has requested from the universe? Well, the tulip would not be a tulip if it had requested something else. The way to tell what has been requested is by the evidence that is present.
Now, a tulip can’t request anything else, it is programmed into the bulb exactly what it is to request from the all providing source. But you and I are a little different, we have two different aspects. One, like the tulip, your physical self, has been programmed much the same way through your DNA and this is just as automatic as with the flower. You don’t need to think to keep your body running as it was designed, including all your uniqueness.
Then, the other aspect you have is your mental capacity to reason, think and choose. Sure some other creatures have a little of this aspect but nothing like we do. A cat can decide to seek out a warm sunny spot to lay in, but it can’t learn a new trade or change the way it perceives things like you can. This second mental ability is one where you decide what is in the seed - your seed. You have the ability to design what the seed will request from the universe, let’s call it your ‘creative seed’.
Now this part is important to understand, just like the tulip seed and your physical body, your ‘creative seed’ is always activated with the universe. This means the universe is constantly reading your request within your ‘creative seed’, thus it is always responding in kind. Here is the scary part, your thoughts, all of them, are the ‘creative seed’ which is a continuous active request link to the intelligent universe. So everything you are thinking is your ‘creative seed’ whether you are or are not consciously aware of it.
This is why it is so critically important to make it your main objective all day every day to discover what you are thinking and adjust it to be congruent with that which best serves what you want in your life. When you may say that you want something, but all the while your inner thoughts are pointed elsewhere and your behavior is reinforcing something else, your ‘want’ doesn’t hold much weight in the request seen by the universe. Your predominant thoughts and actions are so strong; the universe can’t hear what you really want.
You are right now completely successful at what you have invested your thoughts and energies to, even if you are not totally aware of them. Your experience in life has a direct correlation to what you think about and feel strongly about most of the time. There is an exact relationship to the percentage of time you allot to any thoughts and your life experience.
So if you want to be successful at something other than what you are successful at today, you will need to devote a higher percentage of your thoughts, feelings and energies in ways that are more in alignment with these desires. Just occasional lip service will not do.
All of your thoughts combined are what is included inside of your ’seed’ that the universe works to fulfil for you. So ask yourself, “How much of the volume or space in the seed is taken up with what I deeply want and how much of it is what I don’t want, don’t like, put up with or just complain about?” You are constantly creating this seed, and from this you are completely successful based on what’s in it.
To change this, you will need to take command of your everyday thinking, choose to have more of your thoughts, feelings and actions be congruent with your deep desires. Using your valuable thought time to complain, ridicule, doubt, worry, feel angry, resent someone, and many other negative type thoughts, just steal time you can be filling your ’seed’ with what you really want. Plus, you will just get more in your life to complain, resent, worry about and all the rest - is that what you really want?
Some people have actually kept track, in time, of their thoughts all day long in order to discover what percentage of time they devote to certain ideas. With this you can discover what undesirable thinking you want to replace with the aligned thinking you want.
Take command of your thinking now by aligning more of your thoughts with your deepest desires, you will see your feelings and actions follow suit, then your life experience will too. Choose what you are successful at by redirecting the same tools and power you now use to get what you now have.
John Halderman